Ode to Purell
So this Christmas vacation had its pros and cons... It was one of the
best because I had a little Eloise to hold and kiss and love on Christmas day. We spent the holiday in Denver with Chris and Stacy and their four little ones and their dog, Hatch. Those were some of my favorite Christmas memories growing up: Christmas morning with a slew of cousins and a line of paper bags full of presents with each of our names on them. It was craziness and pure fun. Our girls were able to spend this Christmas playing and being rowdy with their four cousins. (Although Charlotte spent most of her time running from Henry who is a little terror. Hopefully next year will be better for those two).
On the other hand, it was a bit of a stressful and tiring Christmas because despite our best efforts to ALL be healthy (which we managed for the first couple of days), we got hit by a nasty virus that whipped through the family, knocking out 8 out of 13 of us. This was especially frightening because of a little thing called "strep B" which I had running through my blood (some women have it, some don't; you can have it with some pregnancies and not with others. It doesn't manifest itself at all to the mother but can harm the baby). Even though I was given an antibiotic during labor, there's a small chance (2 or 3% chance) that I can pass it onto the baby during the first three months, which could be very serious for her. SO our doctor kindly warned us that if she gets a fever above 100.4, she has to be checked into the hospital and have a bunch of nasty tests (including a spinal tap. ugh) done just to be sure it isn't a strep B infection. *sigh. With that said, we had thought and prayed a lot about going or not going to Denver and decided that we felt good about it--we would either sit around inside at our house or at their house, and their's would be way more fun. So we went.
And I'm so glad we did, only I wish we could have been spared the virus. It hit Vicki first on Christmas Eve. She stayed in her room for two days to keep it contained, but it still spread like wildfire the following week. Every time another kiddo would start coughing, someone would mumble "another one bites the dust." Thanks to prayer, a priesthood blessing, breast milk, and lots of hand sanitizer, Ellie stayed healthy and IS still healthy, now that we're all here at home with the remnants of our sicknesses. And that's what made the rest of our vacation a little difficult...I got the virus on Monday and stayed quarantined with the baby in our room for the rest of the week, wearing a face mask so that my germs would stay as contained as possible. It was a flashback to baby Charlotte--washing my hands until they were chapped, changing my clothes constantly, and wearing a face mask so that I wouldn't breathe into her face every time I nursed. The toiletries in the bathroom were replaced with Mucinex, tissues, Lysol wipes and hand sanitizer (love you, Purell).
On Tuesday, once the two oldest kids had a fever, we talked about our options to get Ellie home and away from all the sickies (except for me of course). We decided flying was out since she'd be exposed to a ton of germs in the airport and the airplane anyway. We talked about packing up and driving home the next day (which meant we would miss our niece Kate's baptism on Thursday), but a huge storm was blowing in on Wednesday and would last through Thursday night. So Friday morning it was!
The real low point was around Wednesday, day 3 of being quarantined, when I was so lonely that I called my mom (who was far far away on a Caribbean cruise) and left her a rambling message with tears falling into my face mask, my nose running. So silly. The next day got much better. When the kids were all napping, I'd come out and make some lunch and visit with the adults. Some nights, if I felt up to it, I'd join in the games. Another blessing was that Ellie's fussiness has moved to early evening, so she's been sleeping much better at night. Such a bonus for us.
Thursday was Kate's baptism, which I'm very glad we didn't miss. She is such a mature little eight year old and I know she took everything very seriously. I hope our little girlies turn out to be like Ms. Kate. What a good example she is! *Funny side note: after the actual baptism, while Kate was changing, I was asked to lead the room in singing some hymns. David let both our girls wander a bit to get out some energy. Charlotte was roaming the little "stage" that was behind me and when she discovered that she had on her "squeaker shoes." (Unfortunately, they are the only black church shoes we have in her size at the moment). Every time her foot hits the floor just right, they squeak. Suddenly she is running in place, trying to evoke the strongest and loudest squeaks her shoes can produce, smiling up at all of us as if to say, "Isn't this AWESOME?" Luckily David jumped up and grabbed her before she got too carried away.
Friday morning, we packed up and took off. I had prayed and prayed that our girls would stay healthy until we got home so that we wouldn't have them coughing like crazy in the car (since Vicki, Kevin and I were already coughing, but we could at least cover it up). Again, prayers were answered. They both got runny noses and Hazel started to cough a tiny bit, but it was not too bad of a trip home. We ended up taking so long due to the weather that we celebrated New Year's at a gas station while I nursed Ellie, watching fireworks light up the sky at a nearby park.
Happy New Year. Happy to have my body back and a sweet healthy baby in my arms. Happy for the adventures ahead with our little family of three beautiful girls.
Happy to be home.
p.s. a HUGE thanks to Chris and Stacy for sharing their home and food and good company.
Sorry we shared our germs! Love you.